Healing Hearts on a Sunday Afternoon

Healing Hearts
Healing Hearts

I attended a wonderful Healing Hearts presentation Sunday afternoon hosted by Chartiers Custom Pet Cremation. Elizabeth Babcock’s presentation is full of practical information, telling us that the grief at losing a beloved animal companion is real, it isn’t pretty, it really hurts, it takes time to resolve, and is different for each of us. In 2015 I took notes on the presentation so you can read more about it.

Contemplative Kitty
Contemplative Kitty

No matter how many times I’ve heard this presentation I still take it in each time.

It’s just about this time in 2006 that I lost Moses, and the first time I called Deb for the cremation of one of my cats. I had become unhappy with the prior cremation service I’d been using in the late 90s. When Nikka died in 2003 I took her to a local veterinary hospital for cremation and they matter-of-factly handed me a box with no comments and went on to the next person. Nikka’s cremains were in a plastic bag inside. Between losing Sally in 1999 and Moses in 2006, she was the only loss and I decided that wouldn’t be the way I treated my cats in the future.

As Moses approached her time I remembered reading an article about a unique pet cremation service in the next town down the road, found the article and called to make arrangements. The day I had Moses put to sleep, my friends Amby and Dan pulled up just as my veterinarian left. Those two had adopted two kittens from my first litter and their mom, and then later adopted Lucy’s brothers, and we’ve been friends since the mid 80s. They offered to drive me to the cremation business, and Deb welcomed all of us and we all sat in the living room area and talked about Moses and loss and our pets. I have never had an attended cremation. I like the time to contemplate before I feel their cremains in a bag. This time I actually felt good about leaving Moses with her, and grateful to my friends for transporting me.

Chartiers Custom Pet Cremation.
Chartiers Custom Pet Cremation.

There have been over a dozen since then, including a few hospice fosters. That day I’d first been there Deb also mentioned to me that she’d seen my artwork in a few homes, and she became my customer as I became hers, managing her website since then, designing her logo, writing press releases, and speaking at Pet Memorial Sunday. She’s also purchased some of my keepsakes as urns, and I have sample portraits hanging in that living room. Yet, when I have a loss, I am a customer once again.

I photograph Deb’s two grief support events each year, Healing Hearts and Pet Memorial Sunday, and I know I’ll be using the photos and ideas from each event in future work for Deb. But even in years when I don’t have a loss the events are still meaningful for me. I would attend anyway. It’s one of the things I like about the way Deb has her business structured.

I don’t think I’ll be looking around for another service any time soon.

Kitty on a pillow.
Kitty on a pillow.

 


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Star of Wonder feline votive.
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