The Day We Met Our So-called Daddy

black cat on sidewalk
Who was this man cat?

We had always had our mama Mimi with us from the time we could remember, and of course our human mama Bernadette, and we didn’t know there was ever anyone else. What kindle of happy kittens could ask for more?

But one day we noticed our mama Mimi was acting a little strangely, distracted and distant, not as attentive with the  touch-up baths we loved so much, little licks around the face and ears as we figured all feline moms did. But she kept going to the front door and the windows and pacing around, which was not unusual considering there are often other kitties out there, not to mention her favorite chipmunks and squirrels and birds and more. We just felt she was expecting something to happen that hadn’t happened yet in our lives.

We were a little past one year old, quite mature but were about to learn a lesson we’d never forget because a black cat came down the street and up the sidewalk like none other we’d ever seen. It wasn’t his size or shape or anything, we just felt…somehow, we knew him.

black cat on sidewalk
He walked very purposely down the walk.

It was obvious our mama Mimi knew him, as did our mama Bernadette; just when we thought we knew and had experienced everything, like we knew every other cat in the neighborhood and every bird and squirrel by their secret names, these two showed us we were wrong in already knowing something we did not, like this cat.

Both of them grew very silent and stood still watching the cat turn off the sidewalk and come down our walk toward the door, as if he lived here! Mama Bernadette, of course, grabbed one of her eye boxes—while we stand still and study and turn our ears this way and that and bob our noses and open our mouths to smell better in order to experience and assess a situation, Mama Bernadette picks up one of her little eye boxes and we hear snap snap snap while we do our cat thing.

But we were totally confused by the next thought mama Mimi sent to us: this cat was our “father”. That was a totally new concept. What was a father? The images and ideas we were seeing from her were totally confusing…her and this cat, in the neighbor’s driveway across the street, were they fighting? What was this all about? Then we saw our mom with a big belly, then we saw…was that us? Those squirming little black things?

black cat on sidewalk
Our mom tells him in no uncertain terms...something we won't repeat.

He kept calling her “Maia” and our mama Mimi had a wordless conversation, something about “not doing that anymore”. In another part of our consciousness it was all coming together. There is that part of us that knows things we can’t see or smell or hear or taste or touch, it just wasn’t as important as what we “knew” at the time but we’ve grown into it as the years have passed. In that moment all four of us together were coming to one understanding as we looked at each other and at our little mama and at the cat out on the sidewalk, and even at the other cats who weren’t even related to us, Cookie, Namir, Kelly and Peaches—apparently they knew something too! How could we have not known this? We were learning one big lesson from our mama Mimi and our older brother and sisters, and even our human mama, this concept of “father”, and we weren’t sure we liked it, especially the way he was treating our mama Mimi in her images, and the way he was looking at her and communicating with her now!

But even though our mama is tiny and was way less than half the size of this black cat, she told him where to go in no uncertain feline terms we won’t repeat here! And he did, just turned around and went back out the way he came in.

closeup of black cat
Do you think we look like him?!

Then the conversation started and included all the cats in the house because we had a new concept to play with! Even we recognized his face—did his eyes look like Giuseppe’s? Those big round paws like Mewsette’s? And that white spot—Bean had one too! And that straight-across back—Mr. Sunshine!

In the end we decided we all looked a little bit like him. But we still looked like our mama Mimi.

And then she told us something that shocked us all. There was another black cat aside from this one! Why didn’t he come to visit? Mama Mimi said she hoped she’d never see him again because she had no further use for him.

Underneath the excitement of meeting this black cat, the whole situation was very confusing. Mama Mimi told us there was a time that this what what she did and she was very careful about who she did it with, she liked everything to be organized and neat and didn’t want any kittens that didn’t match. But because we had all been “fixed” (we didn’t know we were broken) we would never fully understand and that was just fine.

We see plenty of cats out there, but we never saw him again. We hear human cat daddies are pretty special—we have cat uncles and they are the greatest!—and we’ve heard about some cat daddies in our own species who are just as cool as our mama Mimi, but this guy, well, we’re glad they didn’t stay together.

You may also recognize this guy from “The Boys Don’t Get Off the Hook on Spay Day”.

Read about Mimi and her epiphany about the happiness of being spayed in her annual Mother’s Day address,  Mimi, on “Mother’s Day”, but once you’ve produced the Fantastic Four, how could you possibly top that?!

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2 thoughts on “The Day We Met Our So-called Daddy

  • June 19, 2012 at 2:22 pm

    He is a very handsome man-cat! I love the part about making sure she (Mimi) had matching kittens, and they (the Fantastic Four) didn’t know they were broken. lol

    • June 19, 2012 at 2:44 pm

      Mimi says, “Yeah, he was one handsome dude, but it turned out he was like all the others, leaving me barefoot and pregnant.” She really did have nearly all black kittens and because she used to rendezvous in the neighbor’s driveway it was nearly always two particular black cats.


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