Two New Cards, for Emeraude

animal sympathy card with black cat
To Emeraude, from Emeraude, “I will never forget you.”

Of course, it’s our pledge to them as they leave us, that we will never forget them, but don’t we also hope it’s their pledge to us, that they’ll carry our memory with them wherever they go?

I’ve designed and dedicated a new animal sympathy card for Emeraude. The geriatric kitty who made her own happiness in a strange new world and turned to trust me deserves that, and more—a second card dedicated to the adoption of senior cats.

I take the use of an animal’s image seriously, especially with my sympathy cards, never presuming they want to represent what I have to say; for that reason I always feel most comfortable using the images of animals I know well, mostly those who’ve lived with me.

For about half the time she lived here, Emeraude was quiet and withdrawn, rarely made eye contact with me unless I laid on the floor to look at her, never interacted with Mimi and the kids and though I left the door open they never stepped in and tried to be friends. Until one day she actually looked up at me in trust, the same way Peaches did, and let me know I was her person. We were devoted after that, and the boys plotted to steal her food, we all felt free to join her in the bathroom where she had chosen to live. Emeraude had a forever home, even if forever was just a few months more.

This is my favorite photo of her, this photo of her looking up at me because I wanted to preserve that expression on her face, and I wanted to include her favorite colorful blanket. She loved her bed, and from the first time I added the pawprint blanket to her pile of soft things, and every time I turned it over or replaced it with the second identical blanket she would wait until I had it all just right, then with great ceremony step upon her bed, and turn around and purr, truly a princess. It suited her immediately, and until she began to feel very ill not one black cat ever even thought about stepping on Emeraude’s bed. It belonged to her and everyone respected that.

And I wanted that expression because it was a reminder each time that she had come to trust me, and because I worked very hard to get it, both her trust and the photo. I have at least two dozen photos from this day alone that are blurred, too dark, not looking up enough, looking away too fast, and dozens from other days that were about the same. I knew our time was finite—this photo was taken on December 13, a month after her diagnosis with lymphatic leukemia—and I wanted to be certain I captured it, her slightly bent up face, her one white whisker, her emerald eyes, and her happy bed.

sympathy card with black cat
To Emeraude, from Emeraude, “I will never forget you.”

My sympathy cards have a theme of happy memories, and in the end this is what I hope we all remember about our animal companions, the joy they brought to our lives, and the beautiful things we shared. Like Lakota, Emeraude spent just a short time as part of our feline family, but I will surely never forget her.

And I will never forget all the love sent to her from all of you, and I’m sure she will remember too.

I will add that I had to wait a week to post this image because every time I looked at it tears just splashed from my eyes. I was concerned it would only make others cry too. But I consulted with my friend Deb Chebatoris who meets with people grieving their pets every day and she convinced me that, for all the stories people tell and all the sentiments they share, this is the one thing that absolutely everyone says. So I guess it’s fitting.

Use THIS card to celebrate the adoption of senior cats

card for senior cats
“You’re never too old to fall in love!”

When I sat down to design the sympathy card, this idea kept coming back to me so I actually designed it first. Is this what Emeraude would say? I’m sure, and it’s likely what a lot of other senior kitties looking for a home would say as well. And it makes me smile. It’s a great sentiment to encourage the adoption of senior pets, and it might even come in handy for a few humans as well.

card with senior black cat
“You’re never too old to fall in love!”

I hope that both Lakota’s card and Emeraude’s card can be used to let others know you’ve made the commitment to adopt or foster a senior cat, or to encourage or congratulate someone who has done so, because you’re never too old to fall in love, and even though we may never feel it’s enough time, there is always time enough to love. You can find Emeraude’s sympathy card, Emeraude’s love card and Lakota’s card in my Etsy shop.

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About my sympathy cards

animal sympathy cards
The set of sympathy cards.

As an artist I turn my emotions into creative output. Thus it is with the grief I’ve felt at the losses of my cats through the years. After receiving many sympathy cards I realized that not too many are focused on the loss of an animal companion, and I vowed to create a line of sympathy cards drawn on my own experiences that would feature photos and paintings of my cats and others’ animal companions as well as artwork and photos not focused on any species.

It wasn’t until after I’d lost Namir in July 2009 that I was suddenly moved to start designing, and when the task was done I had a dozen different sympathy cards. Each of the cats depicted was or is one of mine and the dog, Tika, I came to know through a friend and her animal memorial project.

Lakota’s card is the first new one since that year. I’ve also found that other cards outside this series are also used for sympathy cards, and as I mentioned above these sympathy cards are used for other greeting purposes. I’m so pleased to serve six veterinary hospitals around the country, four of them cat-specific, with wholesale orders of my sympathy cards. It also brings me joy to know the cats I loved are still out there doing their magic on others.

You can read more about my sympathy cards and see all the designs on my regular website, and you can also find the original set of a dozen sympathy cards in my Etsy shop. With the addition of Lakota’s card and Emeraude’s card I’m going to organize different sets and take the time to list them each individually.

black cat with green eyes
I carry her into the room, but Emeraude has grown to like it in there.

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17 thoughts on “Two New Cards, for Emeraude

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  • February 14, 2014 at 10:45 am



  • February 14, 2014 at 7:57 am

    I think Emeraude would be proud of these, Bernadette; they’re a beautiful tribute.

    • February 14, 2014 at 9:50 am

      Lynda, I told her all about it in her last days. I knew I’d use this photo, and she’d be remembered as a pretty girl.

  • February 14, 2014 at 7:21 am

    Lovely tribute, Bernadette. Emeraude lives on!

  • February 14, 2014 at 5:52 am

    Such a loving tribute to Emeraude! It’s fitting that she gets her own card, like Lakota.

    After I got home yesterday,my coworker sent me a text message asking if I had another one of “those cards” because another of our coworkers was letting a cat go that evening. People are routinely amazed that I have unique cards for those occasions when they are so difficult to find in card shops. I have the box I bought from you to thank. It’s a really nice thought that Emeraude will be spreading comfort like that, too.

    • February 14, 2014 at 9:49 am

      Gang, I’m so glad to know my cards are helping others! Emmie definitely went on to have her own story didn’t she?

  • February 13, 2014 at 8:23 pm

    I also cannot help the tears Bernadette..Those piercing emerald eyes and her favorite blanket..Isn’t it amazing how one little black kitty touched so many hearts..I don’t think she could ever forget the lady who treasured her till the end of her time..and beyond..I am so glad that you honored her this way..Hugs

    • February 13, 2014 at 8:40 pm

      So simple, yet so full of meaning, Nancy. She deserves this.

  • February 13, 2014 at 7:37 pm

    Absolutelly beautiful!! Gorgeous girl, just the right pose and her blanket… of course I have tears in my face -as you can imagine- but also a huge smile. Wonderful it is to love at any age. Thanks for this piece of art… and the memories.

    • February 13, 2014 at 8:40 pm

      Maru, tomorrow I want to share the second image as far as we can and promote adopting senior cats!

      • February 14, 2014 at 9:21 am

        I will do it! Promote older kitty love!


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